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Modern Success · Seattle

Dating coach for men inSeattleDate high quality women & build a high status social circle

Coaching for men who are tired of the Seattle Freeze.

Jared Laurence, dating coach for men in Seattle

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Jared Laurence and Modern Success have been featured on Amazon, Bravo, CBS, FOX, NBC, Oxygen, CNN, VH1, ABC, MTV, A&E and 21 Studios.

Dating coaching for Seattle

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Beating the Seattle Freeze

Seattle has a reputation for being polite and hard to break into. People are friendly in passing and rarely let new people into their circle, which makes meeting women feel slow.

Add long gray winters and a big tech workforce, and many men end up working late and swiping at night. The men who break through the freeze are warm, consistent and willing to start the conversation.

Jared helps you build simple habits that get you talking to women in Capitol Hill, Ballard and Fremont, and a social circle that keeps inviting you out.

Where to meet women in Seattle

Where you'll meet her in Seattle

01

Capitol Hill

Bars, coffee shops and live music. One of the most social neighborhoods in the city.

02

Ballard

Breweries, the Sunday market and waterfront spots. Relaxed and friendly, great on weekends.

03

Fremont and Wallingford

Quirky shops, cafes and Gas Works Park. Easy reasons to start talking.

04

Green Lake and Discovery Park

Runners, walkers and dog owners. Good for short, friendly daytime openers.

Your game plan

Your Seattle game plan

Start with the free 5 day course from Jared, then build on it with coaching.

  • 01Break through the Seattle Freeze
  • 02Stay social through gray winters
  • 03Make friends who bring you into new circles
  • 04Turn polite chats into flirting
  1. Day 1How to approach any woman with confidence
  2. Day 2Stop struggling with online dating and get better results
  3. Day 3How to build a social circle of attractive women and high status men
  4. Day 4How to build real attraction with high quality women (full walkthrough)
  5. Day 5How to close the deal and keep her in a relationship
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What others are saying

A few stories of positive change

  • NiclasModern Success student
  • ZachModern Success student
  • LarryModern Success student

Results vary from person to person and are not guaranteed.

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Jared Laurence, founder of Modern Success

Who is Jared?

Jared Laurence

CEO & founder, Modern Success

Seattle clients are often introverts working in tech who want a fuller social life. Gor, the Modern Success day game coach, was a reserved introvert himself, and his methods fit Seattle men well.

Jared holds a degree in behavioral psychology and has coached men on dating since 2007. His work has been featured on Amazon, Bravo, CBS, FOX, NBC, Oxygen, CNN, VH1, ABC, MTV, A&E and 21 Studios.

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FAQ

Dating coaching in Seattle: your questions

What is the Seattle Freeze and how do I get past it?

It is the local habit of being polite but closed to new people. Starting conversations consistently and following up with clear plans gets you past it.

I am an introvert. Can I still get good at dating?

Yes. Coach Gor was a reserved introvert and now teaches men to switch on their social side when they need it.

Can I work with Modern Success from Seattle?

Yes. Coaching runs online by phone and video for men across the Puget Sound area.