The Mission and Dolores Park
Weekend picnics, taquerias and coffee spots. Relaxed and social, great for group conversations.
Modern Success · San Francisco
Dating coach for men inSan FranciscoDate high quality women & build a high status social circle
Coaching for men in the Bay Area who are great at work and want the same results in dating.
As featured in
Jared Laurence and Modern Success have been featured on Amazon, Bravo, CBS, FOX, NBC, Oxygen, CNN, VH1, ABC, MTV, A&E and 21 Studios.
Are you
San Francisco dating has a numbers problem
The Bay Area has a famously uneven ratio, with lots of single men in tech chasing the same women. Many guys respond by swiping more, which usually leads to more matches and fewer dates.
Women here are educated, independent and quick to spot a man who is only talking about his startup. A man who can be present, playful and curious about her stands out right away.
Jared helps engineers, product people and founders build social skills with the same discipline they use at work, so a conversation at Dolores Park or in a Hayes Valley wine bar turns into a date.
Where to meet women in San Francisco
Where you'll meet her in SF
The Marina and Cow Hollow
Brunch, Chestnut Street bars and the waterfront. Lively, outgoing crowds.
Hayes Valley
Boutiques, wine bars and small restaurants. Good for slower, more personal conversations.
Crissy Field and the Embarcadero
Runners and walkers with Golden Gate views. Brief, friendly openers work well.
Your game plan
Your San Francisco game plan
Start with the free 5 day course from Jared, then build on it with coaching.
- 01Stand out in a city with tough dating odds
- 02Talk about more than your startup
- 03Turn screen time into in-person time
- 04Build a social life outside tech
- Day 1How to approach any woman with confidence
- Day 2Stop struggling with online dating and get better results
- Day 3How to build a social circle of attractive women and high status men
- Day 4How to build real attraction with high quality women (full walkthrough)
- Day 5How to close the deal and keep her in a relationship
What others are saying
A few stories of positive change
Results vary from person to person and are not guaranteed.
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Who is Jared?
Jared Laurence
CEO & founder, Modern Success
San Francisco clients like to understand why something works before they try it. Jared's psychology background and the step by step Attraction Ladder give them a clear model they can test in the real world.
Jared holds a degree in behavioral psychology and has coached men on dating since 2007. His work has been featured on Amazon, Bravo, CBS, FOX, NBC, Oxygen, CNN, VH1, ABC, MTV, A&E and 21 Studios.
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FAQ
Dating coaching in San Francisco: your questions
Is it hard for men to date in San Francisco?
The ratio makes apps competitive. Meeting women in person and leading with personality gives you a real edge.
I work in tech. Will this coaching fit me?
Yes. Many clients work in tech. The program is structured and practical, which suits analytical men.
Can I join Modern Success from the Bay Area?
Yes. Coaching runs online by phone and video for men across the Bay Area.
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