West Village and SoHo
Weekend foot traffic, bookstores and gallery openings make easy, low-pressure openers. Comment on what she is doing and keep walking with her.
Modern Success · New York
Dating coach for men inNew YorkDate high quality women & build a high status social circle
Coaching for men who want to stand out in the busiest dating market in America.
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Jared Laurence and Modern Success have been featured on Amazon, Bravo, CBS, FOX, NBC, Oxygen, CNN, VH1, ABC, MTV, A&E and 21 Studios.
Are you
Meeting women in New York moves at subway speed
New York has more single women per block than almost anywhere in the country, and somehow it is still one of the hardest places to get a second date. Everyone is busy, everyone has options, and a slow text back can end things before they start.
Most men here default to the apps because walking up to someone on Bleecker Street or in a Midtown lobby feels impossible. The guys who win in this city learn to start conversations in the moment, keep them short and playful, and lock in a plan before the moment passes.
Jared and the Modern Success coaches teach you exactly that, so a coffee line in Chelsea or a rooftop in the Meatpacking District turns into a real date this week.
Where to meet women in New York
Where you'll meet her in NYC
Williamsburg and Greenpoint
Creative crowds and long brunch lines. Shared interests come up fast, so lead with curiosity about her work.
Central Park and the Hudson River Park
Runners, dog walkers and reading spots on the lawn. Daytime approaches here feel natural when you are relaxed and brief.
Midtown after work
Hotel bars and lounges fill with professionals at 6pm. Strong eye contact and a confident first line matter more than the venue.
Your game plan
Your New York game plan
Start with the free 5 day course from Jared, then build on it with coaching.
- 01Open in under 10 seconds, before the crowd moves on
- 02Turn app matches into dates within 3 messages
- 03Plan dates that fit two packed calendars
- 04Build a social circle across the boroughs
- Day 1How to approach any woman with confidence
- Day 2Stop struggling with online dating and get better results
- Day 3How to build a social circle of attractive women and high status men
- Day 4How to build real attraction with high quality women (full walkthrough)
- Day 5How to close the deal and keep her in a relationship
What others are saying
A few stories of positive change
Results vary from person to person and are not guaranteed.
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Who is Jared?
Jared Laurence
CEO & founder, Modern Success
New York clients usually come to Jared with full calendars and empty weekends. His coaching gives them a simple system to meet women during the life they already live, from the morning commute to a client dinner downtown.
Jared holds a degree in behavioral psychology and has coached men on dating since 2007. His work has been featured on Amazon, Bravo, CBS, FOX, NBC, Oxygen, CNN, VH1, ABC, MTV, A&E and 21 Studios.
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FAQ
Dating coaching in New York: your questions
Do you offer in-person dating coaching in New York?
Coaching runs online by phone and video, so you can work with the team from anywhere in the five boroughs. Live bootcamps run in major cities, and the team will tell you about upcoming dates on your free call.
Is it better to use dating apps or meet women in person in NYC?
Both work, and the best results come from using both. The program covers app profiles and messages, plus how to approach women in person around the city.
How fast can I see results dating in New York?
Many men notice a change in how women respond within the first few weeks of practice. Results vary from person to person and depend on how often you go out and apply what you learn.
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