No clear rules
The Attraction Ladder gives you a step by step model you can learn, test and improve.
Modern Success · For engineers
Dating coach forEngineersDate high quality women as an engineer & build a social life that matches your success
Coaching for engineers who want a system for dating that actually makes sense.
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Jared Laurence and Modern Success have been featured on Amazon, Bravo, CBS, FOX, NBC, Oxygen, CNN, VH1, ABC, MTV, A&E and 21 Studios.
Are you
Attraction has a system. Engineers learn it fast.
Engineers solve hard problems for a living. Dating can feel like the one problem with no documentation, where the rules change and nobody explains why.
Many engineers spend long hours at a screen, work with mostly male teams and default to the apps. They overthink texts, wait for the perfect moment and get stuck in their heads during conversations.
The Attraction Ladder breaks dating into clear steps, from starting a conversation to the first date and beyond. Jared helps you practice each step until it feels natural, so you get out of your head and into the moment.
Dating as an engineer
What makes dating hard as an engineer
Overthinking
Simple frameworks that keep you present in the conversation.
Mostly male workplace
Ways to build a social life that puts you around more women every week.
Screen-heavy life
How to move from apps and messages to real, in-person connection.
Your game plan
Your Engineers game plan
Start with the free 5 day course from Jared, then build on it with coaching.
- 01Learn attraction as a step by step system
- 02Stop overthinking conversations and texts
- 03Meet women outside a male-heavy workplace
- 04Practice until confidence becomes automatic
- Day 1How to approach any woman with confidence
- Day 2Stop struggling with online dating and get better results
- Day 3How to build a social circle of attractive women and high status men
- Day 4How to build real attraction with high quality women (full walkthrough)
- Day 5How to close the deal and keep her in a relationship
What others are saying
A few stories of positive change
Results vary from person to person and are not guaranteed.
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Who is Jared?
Jared Laurence
CEO & founder, Modern Success
Jared has coached engineers, developers and product teams across the country. Many of his most dramatic transformations come from analytical men who finally got a framework that made sense.
Jared holds a degree in behavioral psychology and has coached men on dating since 2007. His work has been featured on Amazon, Bravo, CBS, FOX, NBC, Oxygen, CNN, VH1, ABC, MTV, A&E and 21 Studios.
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FAQ
Dating coaching for engineers: your questions
Is dating really a learnable skill?
Yes. Like any skill, it improves with clear steps and practice. The Attraction Ladder gives you those steps.
I am introverted and analytical. Will this work for me?
Yes. Many clients are introverted engineers. Coach Gor was a reserved introvert himself and teaches men to switch on their social side.
Do I have to give up dating apps?
No. The program improves your app profile and messages and also teaches in-person skills.
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