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How to Create A Dating Profile that gets Unlimited Matches
Jared Laurence
Introduction
Online dating is now the future of dating where swipes and DMs are the kings and queens of romance. While the game has changed, the goal remains the same: to create a awesome experience and get more dates with women. But let’s be honest, online dating can feel like a full-time job if you don’t know what you’re doing.
Your online dating profile is the first impression you make on someone. So you need to make sure its a good one.
Introduction
As a dating coach, I’ve worked with countless men to help them improve their online dating game. If you’re ready to stand out and meet attractive women , here are the five skills you need to master for online dating success.
1. Crafting an Awesome Profile
Your dating profile is your first impression—it’s your elevator pitch, your highlight reel, and your online handshake all rolled into one. And yet, so many men treat it like an afterthought.
The key to a great profile is balance: showcase who you are and what you bring to the table without oversharing and highlight your interests without sounding like you’re trying too hard to brag.
Tips to Master Online Pictures :
- Choose the Right Photos: Use a mix of well-lit solo shots, action photos (doing something you enjoy), and one social photo along with a few sexy photos that showcase your lifestyle.
- Write a Compelling Bio: Keep it short, and fun. Instead of saying something generic like “I like to travel,” try, “Always looking for my next adventure—recently fell in love with hiking in Sedona.”
- Show, Don’t Tell: Let your photos and bio reveal your personality naturally. Instead of “I’m funny,” have a witty line in the bio
Types of Photos That You Need
1) Sexy: A clear photo of you looking your best that highlights your physique and physical features in good lighting, with a confident look and a smile.
2) Funny: Showcase your humor and a lighthearted personality.
3) Status: Pictures showing your success and ambition. It can be awards, your achievements in academic or work settings or your luxury car collection.
4) Cute/Awe: A photo with a puppy, parent(s), or all three. “You either want a puppy you want or you want mom or you want Dad or you want all three and put them together.”
5) Display of Excellence: Showcasing a skill or hobby you love and excel at. It can be playing the guitar, rock climbing, or cooking.
6) Wild Card: Something unique that shows you are different. Anime or Gaming Cosplay for example
For example:
Tips To Create an Awesome Bio :
- Headline: A catchy and attention-grabbing bio that is unique interesting and summarizes your personality without being generic.
- Humble Brag: Subtly show and highlight your accomplishments and positive qualities.
- Qualifying/Disqualifying: Setting standards by stating what you are looking for or explicitly stating what you don’t want in a date.
- Call to Action on The Profile: Tell potential matches to swipe right or connect on other platforms.
2. Starting Conversations That Are Interesting
The dreaded first message. Too many guys rely on boring openers like “Hey” or “How’s it going?” These are dead ends. If you want to stand out from a sea of guys in her dms, you need to send a message that sparks curiosity or makes her smile and is interesting.
Humor goes a long way.
If her profile mentions she loves dogs, try, “I’m going to need proof your dog is as cute as mine before we proceed.”
If your texts look like this:
- “Hey, what’s up?”
- “How was your day?”
- “What are you doing?”
… you’re not texting; you’re putting her to sleep. Instead do this:
- Situational Openers: Tailor your opening message to something specific you noticed in the girl’s profile.
- Playful to Flirty to Date: Gradually escalating the conversation from lighthearted conversation and banter to flirtatious messages and ultimately securing a date with her.
- Mirroring: Mirroring is a way to connect with people. Your emoji usage and response times should match the girl.
3. Building Connection
Getting a great match or a reply to an Instagram DM is just the beginning. The real work happens during the conversation where you build a bit of comfort and connection before you ask her out on a date.
But here’s most men’s mistake: they either interrogate her with a series of questions or jump into deep intimate topics too soon. Connection happens when the conversation flows naturally and feels easy.
- Don’t ask boring Questions
- Don’t overtext.
- Don’t be a negative Nancy.
- Don’t Talk about your exes
If you wanna know more you can read the guide on the biggest mistakes men make in texting
4. Understand When to Move Offline
The whole point of online dating is to eventually take it offline. Staying in the messaging phase too long can cause momentum to fizzle out and then you have conversations that lead nowhere. On the flip side, rushing to set the date can make you come off as desperate if you haven’t built enough comfort. So balance is key.
- Look for Signs She’s Interested: If she’s engaging and asking questions about you, it’s a good time to move forward and try to set up a date.
- Be Clear, But Casual: Say something like, “I’ve really enjoyed chatting—want to grab coffee this weekend and see if we click in person?”
- Suggest a Low-Pressure First Date: An arcade date or a walk are great options for keeping things relaxed and interesting.
5. Be Patience
Online dating isn’t instant gratification. You’ll face ghosting, mismatches, and the occasional awkward interactions and dates. The key is to practice and get good at dating. Just like everything else dating is a skill. The more you practice the better you get.
- Don’t Take Rejection Personally: Ghosting happens—it’s more about them than you. Move on and meet other people. You should not be obsessed with one woman.
- Focus on the Process, Not Just the Outcome: Each interaction, even the unsuccessful ones, is practice for getting better. Learn and improve.
Final Thoughts
Online dating isn’t rocket science, but it does need practice and effort. With this guide and our coaching you can definitely shorten the time needed to learn these skills so that you don’t have to reinvent the wheel.
Online dating is an art—and with the right coaching and guidance, you can transform it into an exciting journey. By optimizing your profile, mastering conversations, and knowing when to take things offline, you can stand out and get unlimited matches.
Remember, success in online dating isn’t just about finding “the one” overnight—it’s about learning, growing, and having fun along the way. Keep practicing, stay authentic, and focus on enjoying the process.
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