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How to Approach College Women as An Older Guy
Jared Laurence
Introduction
Ever wondered why some older guys totally nail it with college women while others crash and burn? Are you wondering how all these older guys are dating younger girls without paying them any money.
Here’s the shocking truth: it’s NOT about your age – it’s all about your approach! And once you master the same skills as these guys you can do the same.
Think about it: while most guys are stressing about the age gap, some guys just effortlessly sweep in and charm the younger college girls and have wild nights you can only dream of.
Whether you’re back in college or just hanging around campus, understanding the right way to approach college women can make all the difference between being “that creepy older guy” and someone amazing worth getting to know!
Understanding the Dynamics
Let’s get real about something: approaching college women as an older guy isn’t always straightforward! Due to the age gap there are different dynamics that come into play. That you need to aware off.
Here’s what you need to know:
The age gap can be tricky to manage.
- Some women like older guys.
- Some women hate older guys and
- Some women don’t care about your age.
So the ones you need to focus on are the ones who like older guys and the ones who don’t care about the age difference. While you might have more life experience and financial stability (which is definitely attractive to women), it can also create some interesting dynamics:
✅ You’ll likely feel more confident and mature
❌ BUT there is risk of you coming on too strong so make sure to play it cool
🤔 And yes, different life stages can mean different priorities for women so if she’s not interested don’t push it
The thing that increases your odds the most is too look as young as possible. Eat healthy, workout everyday, cardio and weight training is key.
Make grooming and fashion a priority. Hide your grey or white hairs. Unless you wanna go with the witcher hair style where you already have a head full of white hair. Take care of your skin. Wash and clean it daily. Regular showers, face wash etc.
If you have the money go for weekly or monthly full body spa treatments. Trust me the money you spend to look younger now will pay you extremely high dividends throughout your dating life.
Approaching College Women
Ready to make your move? Let’s talk about HOW to actually approach college women without being that creepy older guy!
Start with casual, low-pressure situations:
– Coffee shops on campus
– Study groups (if you’re taking classes)
– Campus events
– Social meetups
Here’s the golden rule: Keep it SUPER chill!
Think of it like this: You’re just making a new friend who HAPPENS to be a woman in college. No pressure, no weird vibes! Keep it fun and relaxed.
The more effort you put in looking younger and hotter the better the results you will get. The younger and more stylish you look the higher your odds of getting with women.
Remember: Looking your best matters, and so does being approachable. Rock that confident but friendly energy, and you’re halfway there already.
Just keep it light, fun, and drama-free. No one likes that try-hard vibe!
Effective Conversation Starters
Let’s get into the good stuff – how actually to break the ice!
Universal topics and topics even simple questions such as What is the best food place or party place around here are good topics you can use:. Other topics like
– Latest Netflix shows
– Music festivals coming up
– That crazy thing that happened on campus last week
– The crazy thing that happened in the neighborhood
– A great story that you have prepared in case you don’t know what to say
But here’s what REALLY works – asking questions that show you’re actually interested in her! Try these conversation starters if you don’t know where to start:
– “What’s the story behind xxxxxx? I bet it’s interesting!” (xxxx can be something about her or something she told you)
– “What project are you most excited about right now?”
– “Any recommendations for good food recommendations around here?”
Remember: The key is keeping it natural and letting the conversation flow. Just genuine curiosity and good vibes!
The vibe you give off matters more than the number of candles on your birthday cake!
Avoiding Common Mistakes
Let’s talk about what NOT to do when approaching college women (because nobody wants to be that creepy older guy!)
First things first:
Coming on too strong is a HUGE no-no!
No needy or creepy behavior
No sexual compliments right at the start.
Want to keep things interesting? Try these fun approaches:
– Share a funny story about your college days
– Invite her to a campus event you’re attending
– Ask her about the fun places to hangout nearby
– Ask about her favorite local spots
Pro tip: Keep the energy light and playful, but NEVER pushy! Think “fun older college senior” vibes. The best connections happen when you’re just being real and letting things flow naturally!
Here’s the thing: Trying to be someone you’re not is EXHAUSTING, and honestly, it never works long-term!
Be proud of who you are:
✅ Your experiences
✅ Your perspective
✅ Your authentic self
Bottom line: Your real self is WAY more interesting than any persona you could create! Just be the best version of you. Be fun charming and do things you love, talk about things and stories you love.
Final Tips
Let’s wrap this up with some game-changing tips for impressing college women!
First things first: Never rush things! The best connections happen when you:
– Move at HER comfort level
– Read the room
– Let things develop naturally
Finding those shared interests is GOLD! Look for:
✅ Common hobbies
✅ Similar music taste
✅ Shared favorite spots around campus
✅ Mutual activities and other things in common
Approaching college women as an older guy is a bit tricky but it is not rocket science. It does require the right mindset and approach! Remember, success comes down to being genuine, respectful, and understanding of where she’s at in life.
The key? Don’t make her feel like you are her dad. Be fun, look your best, dress nicely, take care of your grooming, fashion and appearance.
Focus on being someone worth knowing who she wants to have in her life. When you nail these basics, age becomes just a number in the grand scheme of things! If you need more help in dating younger more attractive women then simply book a call using the button below.
My team and I will give you a free coaching call to get you started on your dating journey.
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jared lawrence
Founder And CEO Of Modern Success
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