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7 things Women Look for In A Man
Jared Laurence
Introduction
Alright, guys, let’s dive straight into the world of attracting beautiful women. So what do beautiful women desire in a man. We decided to ask around and ended with talking to over a 100 girls asking them what do they look for when they choose a man.
As a dating coach for men it’s a pleasure for me to show you what really attracts women. And surprisingly most of it has nothing to with your looks. Now there some exceptions to it. But exceptions prove the rule.
We’ll clear up some myths, break down the truth, and uncover what truly makes a man irresistible to women.
So grab a pen, take notes, and get ready to level up your dating game. Let’s get started!
Things That Women Desire in Men:
1. Good Hygiene, Grooming and Fitness:
Let’s start with the basics, guys. This is a non-negotiable for women. If you do not take care of yourself and make efforts to be your best self. You are going to struggle with attracting women.
If you want to attract women, you need to look and smell good.
Showing up with yesterday’s pizza stains on your shirt? Not a good look and its not getting her all wet. These are simple things that are common sense but as you know common sense isn’t always that common.
Things you need to do:
1) Shower regularly. Make sure you smell fresh and are clean. Body odor is a big no no in dating. Use good scents that are not too strong. Subtle masculine cents are the best.
2) Clean your nails, hair, teeth and make sure everything looks the best. Yes it might take some time and money. But if you look like a homeless guy you are not going to get good with women. Invest your time daily too look good.
3) Your health and fitness. Women like men who are in shape. That’s the vast majority of women. No, I am not saying be a body builder. But you need to be in shape. Be a healthy man that women can depend on physically. Women are biologically wired to find fit men attractive.
2. A Good Fashion Sense
Alright, guys, this is something most men struggle with fashion. I know most men don’t care about fashion but women do and most importantly your looks are determined by the clothes you wear.
If you dress like a homeless man don’t be surprised when she treats you like one. Dressing well isn’t just about looking good for others—it’s about feeling good about yourself. So, grab some nice clothes, find a style that suits you.
If you have female friends than take their advice. See what colours and clothes they suggest. See which colours suit your skin and body. You would be surprised how big of a difference wearing the right colours makes.
Use accessories like watches, hats or bracelets that suit you. There are plenty of men’s fashion Instagram channels that you can follow for advice and dress combinations.
The above things make you sure you put your best foot forward when you meet new women. Again our goal is to min-max whatever we can in a way that makes more women attracted to you.
3. A Good Sense of Humor:
Alright, guys, now we are moving to the non-physical attributes. Women love a guy who is charming and can make them laugh. Witty smart humor is attractive to women.
It’s about having fun and knowing how to keep a conversation interesting. And if you want to get better, try taking an improv or stand-up comedy class. The idea is to learn to be comfortable being yourself and having fun with other people. Bring in the positive energy and make the conversation man to women.
Some fun topics to talk about:
- Man to women dynamic
- Latest happening in the world
- Fashion and style
4. Confidence and outcome independence:
Here’s a big one, guys—confidence is key to attracting women. Women want a man who is confident and outcome independent. If you are needy and approval seeking from women you are automatically making her loose attraction for you.
Women want a man who is different from the rest. Most men are busy chasing women, putting them on a pedestal and being needy. And they are then surprised why women don’t want to date them.
Neediness is like kryptonite for women. The moment women feel neediness from you they will be instantly turned off.
A man who is outcome independent and whose life does not revolve around women is automatically attractive to women because such a man is rare.
5. A Man With Ambition:
A girl I was seeing just told me the secret to attraction in a way that was simple yet so profound it blew my mind.
She said, “I like a guy who has a twinkle in his eye. But I don’t wanna be that twinkle”.
The twinkle in this case are your goals and mission in life. If women are the goal of your life you are doing it wrong. Women want a man who can lead and they feel like supporting.
Think of women like talent scouts. They are looking for the diamond in the rough that they can be with. Women respect a man who works hard and takes care of his business. So whether it’s your job, your goals, or your mission. You need to make sure they are a priority.
6. A Good Personality & Vibe:
The vibe and personality you bring to the table. Most men in the modern era especially from the red pill world tend to bring negative energy and outlook when meeting women.
How do you think that is gonna go? Women are more sensitive to emotions, body language and vibes then men are. If you are negative and bring more negativity women are not going to want to be with you. Learn to be positive and fun. Its good for you and her.
7. Financial Stability:
Alright, guys, let’s talk money for a minute. You don’t need to be rich to attract a woman but if you are financially stable it definitely helps. If you are very young it’s not that big of a deal.
But if you are above the age of 25 and still struggling with money its time you get that money aspect sorted. Women want a man who is dependable. That does not mean you buy her expensive gifts or anything like that.
However you do need money for your own financial stability along with the outcome independence and freedom that you get from money.
Final Thoughts:
The bottom line is this: attracting women is becoming the best most positive and fun version of yourself. You don’t change who you are for women. But you do become the type of person who attracts women by becoming the most attractive version of you.
And if you are still struggling with attracting women then maybe you need some coaching to get you started on dating and attracting beautiful women.
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jared lawrence
Founder And CEO Of Modern Success
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